Quick answer: A coed baby shower welcomes guests of all genders — including partners and friends — to celebrate both parents-to-be, usually with a relaxed, party-like feel. Hearty, crowd-friendly options like a slider or taco bar, BBQ, a grazing table and a mocktail bar are popular for coed showers.
A coed baby shower (also called a ‘Jack and Jill’ or ‘BabyQ’) invites partners, friends and family of all genders to celebrate both parents-to-be together.
Here is everything you need for a coed baby shower: themes, games everyone will enjoy, food and drinks, decorations and invitation wording. 🎉
What Is a Coed Baby Shower?
A coed baby shower is simply a shower where everyone is invited, not just the women. It celebrates both parents, tends to be more relaxed and party-like, and often features casual food, drinks and games that appeal to a mixed crowd. It is a wonderful way to surround both parents with support.
Coed Baby Shower Themes
Themes that suit a mixed, laid-back crowd:
- BabyQ — a backyard barbecue
- Diapers & Drafts or ‘Baby’s Brewing’
- Fiesta or taco bar
- Brunch shower
- Around the clock (guests bring a gift for a time of day)
Coed Baby Shower Games
Games the whole crowd will actually enjoy:
- Diaper-changing race (blindfolded)
- He Said / She Said about the parents
- Baby food taste test
- Guess the baby photo
- Baby trivia face-off in teams
For more, see our baby shower games guide.
Coed Baby Shower Food & Drinks
Hearty, crowd-friendly options work best:
- A slider or taco bar
- A grazing or charcuterie table
- BBQ or finger foods
- A mocktail bar (so mom can join in)
- A simple dessert table
Plan the menu with our food ideas.
Coed Baby Shower Invitation Wording
Set the inclusive tone right from the invite:
- “Grab your partner and join us to shower [Names] with love!”
- “Diapers & Drafts — a coed shower for the parents-to-be.”
- “It takes two! Come celebrate [Name] & [Name] before baby arrives.”
For more, see our invitation wording guide.
Coed Baby Shower Decorations
Keep decor fun and gender-appropriate to the crowd — balloon garlands, a simple backdrop and casual table styling all work well. Our decoration ideas make it easy.
Tips for Hosting a Coed Baby Shower
Keep the vibe relaxed and party-like, choose activities that appeal to everyone, and lean on easy, hearty food. A coed baby shower is all about celebrating both parents together, so keep the focus on fun and connection.
Coed Baby Shower Favors & Details
A few thoughtful touches make a coed shower feel complete:
- Unisex favors like mini succulents, candles or gourmet snacks
- A ‘guess the baby’s stats’ board for the whole crowd
- A drink station with mocktails and self-serve add-ins
- A relaxed seating area so guests can mingle
- A group photo with both parents-to-be
Little details like these keep a coed baby shower feeling inclusive, laid-back and fun for everyone.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is a coed baby shower?
A coed baby shower welcomes guests of all genders — including partners and friends — to celebrate both parents-to-be, usually with a relaxed, party-like feel.
What games are good for a coed baby shower?
Diaper-changing races, He Said/She Said, baby food taste tests, guess-the-baby-photo and team baby trivia all work well for a mixed crowd.
What food do you serve at a coed baby shower?
Hearty, crowd-friendly options like a slider or taco bar, BBQ, a grazing table and a mocktail bar are popular for coed showers.
What do you call a coed baby shower?
It is often called a ‘Jack and Jill’ shower, a ‘BabyQ’, or simply a coed or couples baby shower.
Final Thoughts
A coed baby shower is a fun, inclusive way to celebrate both parents — so keep it relaxed, serve great food, and choose games everyone can enjoy.
Get started with our invitation wording and baby shower games. 💕
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